Bulking has given me lots of extra fat around my midsection, and I’m loving it. I can actually grab my tattoos if I want to. But seriously: don’t fear the jiggle, don’t hate your body. It’s perfect. You’re perfect. And none of this “real women have curves” crap, because women are women whether they are thinner or heavier, whether they have big breasts or none, whether they have a vagina or not, whether they prefer cardio or lifting weights. Love yourself. And don’t let simple things like putting on some weight bring you down. If your clothes don’t fit, get bigger clothes. If you’re hungry, eat.